Hi, it’s Amelia! If you’ve ever looked at a sex shop and wondered what half the things on the shelf actually do, you’re not alone. Rabbits, bullets, wands, plugs, rings… it can feel like a whole new language. So I’ve put together this simple A to Z guide to the most popular types of sex toys, what each one is for, who it suits, and where to find it on SEXstore.ie.

Take your time, have a browse, and remember: there’s no wrong answer. The best toy is simply the one that makes you smile.

Quick Guide: Which Toy Is Right for You?

Anal Beads

A row of smooth beads, usually getting bigger towards the end, with a ring or handle so they’re easy to hold. They’re all about the build-up and the release, one bead at a time. Look for silicone beads with a sturdy pull ring, and always use plenty of lube.
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Automatic Masturbators

Hands-free toys for men that do the work for you, with rotation, thrusting, suction or vibration built in. Many are rechargeable, and some even connect to an app or to interactive videos. A great upgrade for anyone who already loves a classic stroker.
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Bullet Vibrators

Small, quiet and about the size of a lipstick, bullets are the perfect first toy. They’re made for external stimulation and are easy to slip into a handbag or a bedside drawer. Lots of couples love them too, because they’re small enough to use during sex.
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Butt Plugs

A plug has a tapered tip, a narrower neck and a wide flared base that keeps it safely in place. They come in every size, from tiny beginner plugs to bigger ones, and in silicone, glass and metal. Start small, go slow and use a good anal lube.
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Clitoral Suction Toys

Also called air pulse toys, these use gentle waves of air instead of direct vibration. You place the soft head over the clitoris, and the pulses create a sucking, fluttering feeling that many people say is closer to oral sex than anything else. They’ve become one of our best sellers for a reason. Read our Satisfyer Pro 2 review to see what the fuss is about.
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Cock Rings

A stretchy ring worn around the base of the penis, and sometimes around the testicles too. It can help him stay firmer for longer, and vibrating versions add a buzz for both partners. Soft silicone rings are the easiest place to start.
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Couples Vibrators

These are designed to be worn during sex, so both of you feel the vibrations at the same time. Many are U-shaped or C-shaped and come with a remote or app control, so your partner can take charge.
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Delay Sprays

Not a toy as such, but one of the most popular things men buy from us. A delay spray gently reduces sensitivity, which can help make things last a little longer. Use a small amount, give it a few minutes, and follow the instructions on the pack.
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Dildos

The classic. A dildo is a non-vibrating toy for penetration, and it comes in every shape you can imagine: realistic dildos, smooth silicone ones, suction cup dildos that stick to the shower wall, and vibrating dildos if you want the best of both. For a deeper look, read our complete guide to dildos.
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Fleshlights

Probably the most famous male toy in the world. A Fleshlight is a soft, realistic sleeve inside a hard case that looks a bit like a torch. The end cap lets you control the suction, and there are dozens of textures to choose from. Read our Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit review for a closer look.
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G-Spot Vibrators

These have a curved tip designed to reach the G-spot on the front wall of the vagina. The curve does the hard work for you, so it’s all about finding the right angle and the right speed.
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Handcuffs and Blindfolds

The easiest and gentlest way to try a little bondage. A soft blindfold heightens every touch, and furry or padded cuffs add a playful sense of surrender. Agree on a safe word, keep it fun, and see where it takes you.
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Love Eggs and Kegel Balls

Small weighted balls or egg-shaped vibrators worn inside. Kegel balls are great for strengthening the pelvic floor, while vibrating love eggs, often with a remote, are a favourite for a cheeky night out.
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Male Masturbators

Also called strokers, these are soft sleeves with a textured inside, made to feel much better than a hand. They range from small, easy to hide pocket toys to bigger, more realistic ones. Add a little water-based lube and you’re good to go.
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Penis Pumps

A clear tube with a pump that creates a vacuum around the penis, drawing blood in for a firmer, fuller erection. Some are hand pumps, some are water based, and many men use them together with a cock ring. Follow the instructions and never overdo the pressure.
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Prostate Massagers

Curved toys designed to reach the prostate, often called the male G-spot. Many men describe the feeling as completely different from anything else. Start with a slim, smooth model and lots of lube.
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Rabbit Vibrators

The toy that made vibrators famous. A rabbit has a shaft for internal stimulation and a little “ears” arm for the clitoris, so you get both at once. It’s one of our best-selling styles, and there’s a rabbit for every budget.
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Remote Control Toys

Hand the controls to your partner, whether they’re across the room or across the country. Remote toys work with a small handset or a phone app, and they’re brilliant for adding a little surprise to date night.
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Strap-Ons

A harness worn around the hips that holds a dildo in place. Strap-ons are a fun way for couples to swap roles and try something new, and many come as a set with the harness and dildo together.
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Wand Vibrators

Big, powerful and rumbly, wands are the strongest vibrators around. They’re made for external use and double up as a full body massager for tired shoulders. If you love deep, intense vibrations, this is the one.
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Lube, Cleaning and Materials

Which lube should I use?

Water-based lube is safe with every toy and every material, so it’s always a good choice. Silicone lube lasts longer, but it can damage silicone toys, so save it for glass, metal or hard plastic.

How do I clean my toys?

Wash them with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner before and after every use, and let them dry fully before putting them away.

What materials are best?

Body-safe silicone, glass, stainless steel and ABS plastic are all easy to clean and gentle on the skin. Softer, skin-like materials such as the ones used in Fleshlights feel incredibly realistic, they just need a little more care.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best sex toy for beginners?

A small bullet vibrator or a clitoral suction toy is a great place to start. Both are easy to use, gentle on the lowest setting and don’t cost a fortune.

What is the most popular type of sex toy?

Vibrators, and especially rabbit vibrators and clitoral suction toys, are among the most popular toys our customers buy.

What sex toys are good for couples?

Couples vibrators, remote control toys, cock rings and games for couples are all made to be enjoyed together.

Is delivery discreet?

Yes. Every order ships in a plain brown box with no logo and no product names, anywhere in Ireland.

I hope this guide helps you find something you love. If you’re still not sure where to start, have a look at our best sellers to see what other customers are buying right now.

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