Sex Toys for Women

Which Vibrator Is Right for You?

Rabbit Vibrators

A rabbit vibrator has two parts: a shaft for internal stimulation and a smaller arm that rests on the clitoris. You get both sensations at the same time, which is why the rabbit is one of the best-selling vibrators for women. Many models have separate controls for each motor, and some also rotate or thrust.

Bullet Vibrators

Bullets are small, quiet and easy to hide in a bag, so they are perfect for travel and a great first vibrator. Use one on the clitoris or nipples, during sex, or slip it into a toy that has a space for a bullet.

Wand Vibrators

Wand massagers have a large, soft head and deep, strong vibrations. They are made for external use and are a favourite for women who need intense stimulation to climax. Many wands also work well as a relaxing body massager.

G-Spot Vibrators

A G-spot vibrator has a curved tip that presses on the front wall of the vagina. For many women this gives a deeper, fuller orgasm. Start slowly with plenty of lube and try different angles until you find what feels best.

Clitoral Sucking and Air Pulse Toys

These toys do not touch the clitoris directly. Instead they use gentle waves of air and suction around it, which feels very different from vibration. Many women reach orgasm faster with them than with any other toy. You can read more in our guide to air pulse clitoral stimulators.

Remote Control, App and Couples Vibrators

Remote control and app vibrators let your partner take over, either from across the room or from the other side of the world. Couples vibrators are shaped to be worn during sex, so both partners feel the vibrations at the same time.

More Ways to Play

Dildos for Women

A dildo gives a feeling of fullness and lets you control the rhythm and depth yourself. Realistic dildos look and feel like the real thing, vibrating dildos add extra stimulation, and suction cup dildos stick to the wall or the shower floor for hands-free fun. If you are buying your first one, choose a body-safe silicone dildo of a moderate size. Our guide to choosing a dildo explains the sizes, shapes and materials.

Love Balls and Vibrating Eggs

Love balls, also called Ben Wa or Kegel balls, are worn inside the vagina. Many women use them to train their pelvic floor muscles, and they can also be a discreet, exciting way to stay aroused during the day. Vibrating eggs work in a similar way but add vibration, often with a remote control.

Make It Even Better

A good lube makes every toy feel better, and a few drops of a female arousal gel can add a warm or tingling sensation. To complete the mood, take a look at our women’s lingerie.

Tips for Choosing Your First or Next Toy

What to Look For

• Material: body-safe silicone is soft, smooth and easy to clean, and the best choice for most women.
• Rechargeable: USB charging means no batteries, and most rechargeable toys are also stronger.
• Waterproof: a waterproof toy can be used in the bath or shower and is easier to wash.
• Noise: if you live with others, look for toys described as quiet or whisper quiet.
• Size: for a first toy, choose something small to medium. You can always go bigger later.

Lube and Cleaning

Use a water-based lube with silicone toys, because silicone lube can damage the surface over time. Wash your toy before and after every use with warm water and mild soap, or use a sex toy cleaner. Let it dry fully and store it in a clean pouch.